I AM SO SORRY  / PAUL AARON DOMME MOMMY
Rev. Michel Laroche
My Son Was Born in Heaven. An Orthodox Priest's Reflections at the Death of His Son

Translated from French by Corina Gageanu

A child's death is a nameless test indeed. A man who loses his wife is a widower. A woman who loses her husband is a widow. Children who lose their parents are orphans. Parents who lose their children are condemned to silence for there is no name to express their pain. I don't think this happens purely by accident. The shroud of silence will cover in the mystery of the tomb the Resurrection of Christ. This kind of silence the parents of a dead child are condemned to, may be an invitation to the other kind of silence which precedes the Resurrection. Close

rose bush  / Angel Mommy
'think of planting a rose bush on one side of your garden wall and eventually it grows all way round other side but u cant get to the other side its all blocked up but then the sun and rain get at it, and sadly it dies off on your side... but its still on other side thriving away and growing big and strong'


just because you cant see something doent mean its not their...

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I know you feel sad becouse i had to go away. I know you have things that remind you of me everyday and though you cry as you remember the sad day i was taken away i am happy in heaven with jesus now we laugh and we play he holds me gently in his arms and i know no pain today. Though we are far apart and miss each other lots jesus has promised me that someday he'll bring you all up here were we'll all spend a happy eternity together at last . Im never far away im the star you look at in the sky so dont feel sad wipe that tear away im watching over you everyday
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your tears  / Cherylcannon Nanny To Angel Harlei Junior

sweetheart your tears are not selfish, you are a mother in pain
and there is no pain greater than losing your child. he only advise i will give to you is try and work through this as best you can, if you want to sit and talk about your beautiful daughter, find someone who will listen but if you want to sit quietly by yourself, then explain this to your visitors. (im sure they will understand). you are at the start of a long and very hard journey, a journey that will never end untill you have your beautiful daughter in your arms again, but a journey that does become easier to bear with time.
your wish for another baby is normal, my daughter-in-law was exactly the same, and although she was advised againsed this for about 12 months she followed her feelings and we now have a gorgeous addition to our family. we will never forget our angels

you have lots of friends here in the grief forumns, who will talk/listen to you whenever your ready.
or feel free to email me if you'd like.

take care hunny you are in my thoughts

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tears / Mommy
My tears feel selfish tears. I'm crying because I want nevaeh with me even thos he didn't have the strenght to stay and would probably have been in hospital for months with all sorts of health problems.

I hurt because the family i thought i was going to have has been denied me.

i cry because my body tells me I should be nursing my baby.

My heart wants another baby. How can that be???

Selfish tears, selfish wants.

Everyone tells me how well i'm coping but my heart is broken. My thoughts are shouting "how did this happen? My baby is dead"

My jaw aches from holding back tears all day and all I want to do is sit and think about my baby but I have a house full of family and visitors. i Close

in my thoughts  / Cheryl Cannon Nanny To Harlei Junior (angel)
I have just read your story in the legacy section and tears of sadness and anger are streaming down my face.

sadness for the pain you are having to endure and anger because of the mistakes made by so called profetionals who caused the pain in the first place.

I too know your pain my granddaughter 
http://harlei-junior.memory-of.com

died on october 1st 2005, the very day she was due, completely perfect, her mummy had been taken into and sent home from warrington hospital 3 times that week, including the day before, she was told everything is ok go home come back if you feel more pain/are worse etc etc she went back in on that sat morning put on a monitor, told all is fine........
then they had to get another monitor and when they did she was dead....her mummy gave birth to her later that night going through a full labour with no pain releif knowing her precious daughter was dead... we were given no explanation for her death. one midwife even told me to think of it as a cotdeath in the womb (something my GP said he had never heard of and was very angry by)
a reason for her death was never found...but after finally getting the hospital records, some things wer'nt quite right but no matter how hard we tried we could never get any answers. the staff were not helpfull or sympathetic, and it was a case of go home. 

so i wish you luck with your complaint and hope you find the answers you need, i will not tell you that the pain gets easier for any of you because i have found that it doesnt but it does get easier to hide. if you or your mum ever wants to talk, rant anything please feel free to email me i know from the grandmothers point of view how hard it is to grieve for a grandchild and be strong for your child.

i will keep you and your family in my thoughts
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grandaughter / June &. Ken (nanny & grandad )
I have a little Grandaugher, who means the world to me
She's living with the Angels and is as special as can be
And even though she's up there, playing in the clouds
She's still my precious Grandaughter and I am so very proud
Her picture takes pride of place on my living room wall
Ready to be admired by all who come to call
I know I can not hold her, or bounce her on my knee
But only have to close my eyes, her little face to see
I never will stop missing her and wishing she were here
But sometimes I feel, indeed I know that she is very near
So play happily little Grandaugher, you will never be forgot
I love you so and always will, though I miss you such a lot .

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we mother's share a common bond  / Terralynn

What a heartbreak losing your child is!!
Never mind a precious little girl like your Navaeh 

I am devastated at the loss of my angel, Kristopher. Who we recently lost at 17 weeks. I have talked to so many mothers.
Losing their babies at all ages. Some where I was, some where you are, some were 20 years old and beyond.
All of us have something in common, the same undeniable ache and emptiness in our hearts.

I know the pain that wracks your souls.
I have before, and still, walk the road of grief you are travelling.

I know how it feels not to be able to breath with the grief of losing your little boy, and all the potential that comes along with these beautiful little creatures we create.
The helplessness of not being able to make it better, or to have helped them.

But I also know in my heart of hearts that they are still connected to us.
I truly believe that someday we will hold them again.

Without HOPE it is difficult to keep putting one foot in front of the other.

Know always that you are never alone
And there is always someone to reach out to help you along this path of healing.
Know always that there are people in this world, that although they wish not to have know the pain, and grief of this type of loss...Have had to battle the pain of losing their child as well.

We are all here for you in your time of need.

A Big Hug for You And Your Family
From another family touched by an
Angel

Terralynn
Mommy to Kristopher Verge

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